It would be an honor to truly meet you
You know the feeling. Something is swirling inside you. Maybe an internal or external conflict, a daily drama pointing out a painful pattern, or a triggered reaction.
You tell someone, and they totally don’t get it. They tell you it’s not a big deal, or give you advice that falls flat, or say something that shows that they didn’t understand and unintentionally you find yourself in a shame spiral.
You know deep down that you aren’t looking for advice, because you aren’t looking to fix things at all.
And you also know that you can’t push it under the rug anymore, that you are no longer willing to abandon yourself.
You want to be with what is, with open eyes and an open heart, to feel your way through.
And you can’t do that alone. None of us are meant to do that alone.
What you need is space and presence.
To be seen and heard, and have your experience reflected back to you.
Because when we feel deeply understood, we remember that we are not alone.
We can relax and allow our inner knowing to show us the way to face our life’s challenges.
When we feel deeply heard, the shame melts. We remember that we are not broken.
And when the shame melts we can see a clear view of what’s on the other side: our light, our gifts, our purpose.
What am I offering?
This is live empathy through text and voice notes.
You don’t need to keep track of it all and then try to fit it into a 50 minute phone call.
When it comes up, send me a text.
When it’s alive, speak it into a voice note.
I will hear and understand you deeply.
I will reflect your insides back to you.
I will hold up a loving mirror so you can see yourself, the strengths you already embody, and the places that are asking for more love and attention.
I will invite you with gentle questions to explore deeper, to shine a light on the things in the shadows.
I will offer a hand in the dark moments and throw confetti with you in the bright ones.
This is not therapy and it is not coaching. It is empathy in action. I am here to walk alongside you.
Who Is This For?
This is for you if you are ready to meet yourself.
Fully.
When it’s easy and when it hurts.
To see the dark and the light and to choose self-love and compassion because you are done holding yourself to impossible standards.
You are ready to allow yourself to be human.
And to allow your humanity to be seen and held with you. To allow the grief and joy to be seen and held with you.
This is for you if you are ready to step into your full sovereignty.
If you want to take responsibility for your life, and you know that part of that is not trying to do it all alone anymore.
This is for you if you know your gift is calling you and you are listening.
Love and Logistics
We begin with a two-month container with unlimited connection.
You can show up exactly when and as you need. I will respond when I have the spaciousness to truly hear you, which may be the same day or the next day at the latest.
We will create the dance together, finding our pace as we ebb and flow.
I work from a principle of reciprocity, by which I mean I trust in the universal web of giving and receiving.
I believe this work is sacred and our birthright, and I honor it by showing up in full loving presence while respecting my capacity so I can continue offering it.
To that end, I give three different energy exchange options:
If you are someone who has more, your abundance can pay it forward and lift up those who have less at this moment.
If you’re someone with less, there is a place for you here.
If none of these options works for you currently, let’s talk.
Swell -- 50 euros per month
Wave -- 150 euros per month
Ripple -- 300 euros per month
Which price is right for you?
Swell: personal finances are unstable
Wave: stable income or access to financial support
Ripple: individual with investments, able to afford vacations
For more on this economic model, check out this image for guidance
Others Are Saying:
"Ray, thank you again for your amazing ability to empathize, I feel deeply seen and understood. Your ability to use your words in this way is a medicine."